The Leader in Me at RCE "Proving a leadership centered environment that honors the greatness in every child."

One of the key concepts in the Leader in Me revolves around “making your own weather”. We can choose to be happy or we can choose to be glum during this time. By no means am I making light of today’s situation. Many families are dealing with a loss of wages and social distancing. These are serious concerns, but there is always time to be thankful and choose joy in spite of the circumstances.

I am amazed by the way that people are stepping up and dealing with circumstances in a positive way. In today’s column, I would like to salute those brave souls who are facing uncertainty with joy and with valor.
First, I salute those who are working in the medical field. My daughter and daughter-in-law are on the front lines as well as many other doctors and nurses. The brave souls go to work every day with the uncertainty of if, or when, they will come into contact with the coronavirus. Many of these healthcare workers fear not for their own safety, but rather for the safety of their families as they reenter their homes at the end of the day. I salute every healthcare worker working directly with those impacted by the coronavirus.
Second, I would like to salute the new “home schooling” parents. Parents have really risen to the challenge of helping educate their children. I laugh aloud when I read their many of posts on social media. Many are ready to “graduate” their children. Others are doing daily journals of their “home schooling” ventures, and the positive response to teachers has been overwhelming. In reality, I believe that teaching is a calling in life. Just like the “home schooling” parent, we also become overwhelmed, yet the joy of seeing children learn and grow throughout the year is addictive. It is what drives us to continue teaching kids every day. We miss not seeing our “kids” every day.
Next, I would like to salute the individuals who are working together to get meals out to our children. Area churches and community members have come together to ensure that our children continue to receive well-balanced, healthy meals at home. I have always believed that the way we treat the youngest, oldest, and most vulnerable people in society is a reflection of our character as a nation. Ralls county citizens are rising to the challenges and ensuring that our kids are well-fed during these trying times. If your family is experiencing food insecurity, please email me at dduckworth@rallsr2.k12.mo.us and I’ll make sure your family is added to our list of kids needing food.
The community is the next group of people I would like to salute. These individuals are stepping up and demonstrating “positive weather” during this time. In homes throughout the community, stuffed bears are popping up like daffodils in the windows! If you haven’t been out of the house for a while, just take time to drive around town and look for these cuddly creatures. It is a great way to maintain social distancing while also creating a fun adventure for kids. It reminds me a lot of playing “I Spy” as a child.
This week, paper hearts decorated by our children will begin appearing in windows. As a community member, join the fun by cutting out a heart and decorating it and displaying it in your window. Grannies, Poppies, and everyone can join in on the fun!
On Friday, April 3, Ralls County Elementary will be hosting a community “drive by” parade. Teachers will be driving up and down the streets in each of the three communities honking their horns and displaying positive “I miss you” messages for their students. If you would like to take part in the fun, make a poster, grab a glass of iced tea, and sit outside and join the fun.
Lastly, I would like to salute our leaders. Regardless of political party, I think that most Americans are seeing our president, governor, legislative branch, health department and local government step up to the challenge set before them. I am thankful for Dr. Lewis, our school board and our building principals for the time and effort they have given to ensure that our children are safe and continue to learn. These individuals have definitely become “poster children” for leaders and heroes to me.
In conclusion, we are living in a unique time. I graduated from high school in 1978. That year, Ralls County experienced one of the largest snowfalls I can remember. Every time I see a picture of a country road with six feet of snow piled up on each side, it brings a smile to my face. I am sure these were difficult days for parents. At our house, there were six kids, all of which were probably screaming and yelling and demanding to be fed (does that sound familiar?), but I only remember the good memories. That’s what “making your own weather” means. We choose how we react to situations. I miss teaching, I miss hugging kids, I miss the laughter, but I hope I come out of this situation a better person. Let’s choose joy!